Date written 08/04/2009 08:28:04
Being a mum is not all what u think it is to be. As a young mum with a unplanned pregnancy i got lectured from friends and family members all the things that would change in my life. I was Told Id be constantly getting up threw the night to change nappies, putting up with a unsettled newborn, dealing with them when they are sick, having sore breast's if i decided to breast feed etc. After Giving birth to my only child Jazmine and dealing with all the above things i mentioned and more u realise it is really hard but the kind of 'hard' u can deal with and move on, u get used to it as everyday comes and new challenges arise. What i didnt get told about was my life changing so dramaticually. Being someone young who used to go out and party, drink, dance then turning into a stay at home mum was the hardest thing...loosing all of my friends becuase they are to busy and to social for just a coffee at my house. all i have now is my partner but who do i talk to about him?? No one warned me of being so alone. I also new there would be chores but i feel my life now is just chores, since we are the mums and our partners work does that still have to mean they dont lift a thumb?? Everyone told me i would be soo busy and i was for the 1st 2 months but now at 10months old im strugling to find a job and finding the bordem extremly hard..there is only so much cleaning you can do. being a mum wasnt what i expected everyone only warned me of the baby stuff but not my life personally changing. I love being a mum, i love my baby and still wouldnt change a thing though!!
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