When is a baby premature?
If your baby is born before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy, they are considered to be a preterm or premature baby.
Bonding with your premature baby in hospital
If your baby is born prematurely, they will need to stay in hospital until they’re strong enough to go home. But even though you may not be able to cuddle them as you expected, they can recognise your smell and voice, so simply sitting next to them and talking can start to build the strong bond that you’ll want with your baby.
Premature babies have noticably thin skin, so you might worry that your baby is too fragile to touch, but gentle stroking or massage is a special and comforting way to pass on your love and reassurance. You will be guided by the hospital staff on how best to do this.
Some mums and dads can find it very emotional visiting premature babies. If you don’t feel up to it some days, take a little time to look after yourself so that you’re better prepared when you’re ready to go back in. Your baby will be in good hands in the meantime.
Expressing milk for your premature baby
If your baby is still in the baby unit, you can still express breast milk to feed them. Many mums find that their milk supply goes through ups and downs, so if your milk supply needs a boost, try some of these tips:
- Try expressing your milk more often
- Soak in a relaxing bath
- Cuddle or stroke your baby
- Massage your breasts and express by hand
- Try a different style of pump
- Ask the midwife or lactation consultant at the hospital for help
Development of premature babies
Unlike full term babies, there is no ‘average’ developmental chart for babies born prematurely. That is because every preterm baby is unique. It is natural to feel a little concerned that the earlier your baby is born, the more likely they are to face challenges. However, premature babies do not necessarily face long term problems.
Remember, even full term babies meet their milestones at different times, so take heart! The most important thing is to encourage and celebrate every step of your baby’s development.
Will my next baby be premature too?
Many mums of premature babies worry that all their children will be born early but this isn’t necessarily the case. Talk to your health care professional about it if you have any medical concerns.